Long Distance Relationship

Special Feeling of Long Distance Relationship 

Hey! This is my first story and i really don’t want to talk about the weird stuffs and some interesting topics which I like to discuss in later stages on this page. Today I’m going to talk about a special feeling or state in a relationship i.e the Long Distance Relationship. 

It is a way to improve your relationship from one level to another. It has two ways in which a relationship will end in a Long distance relationship. On one side, the entire relationship from the beginning will be a Long distance i.e they would had not met each other till now but still they will be interested in one another. This type of relationship will be mainly due to the internet services and other social media platforms that would had started there relationship. In this form of relationship, there will be no problems at teh beginning of the relationship and the only way of communicating will be entire online. 

While the next one of the Long Distance relationship will be the which would had started due to some uncertain circumstances. At the beginning of the relationship, it will be an one-on-one interactions but on the later stages it would had converted into a Long Distance one. I really want to discuss about this long distance relationship mainly because lots of people think that it will not work and it will end the relationship eventually. So, first let me explain you some of the things that you could do to have a healthy long distance relationship. 

1. Communicate on a Daily Basis but not frequently :-

 At the initial stages of the Long distance relationship try to communicate with the person as much you can but not all the time. Since, the opposite person will also miss you so much but they would have got some additional work to do. So, always remember the main reason why you came to an conclusion of an Long distance relationship. It will make the things less complicated and will also help you to start discussing about new topics in that area with your partner. 

2. Time Schedule:- 

So, now all the things of the initial stages of the Long distance relationship is over and both of you had settled at some places on the globe. Then start analyzing your partner’s time schedule and start spending time with them when they are free. This will not increase the chances of fights rather than that it will bring the range of love and respect in a different aspects. In more cases try to find the sweet spot where both of you are free and communicate effectively. Thus, it will increase the quality of the talks and will bring yourself closer to one another. 

3. Common Area of Interests :-

Since you came to know the right time to talk with your partner. The next thing that you should find some area of interests. This will help to keep the conversation spicy without it you will end up taking about the same stuffs again and again. So, in those cases these common area of interests will help you to talk with no regrets. These topics can be anything such as movies, comedies, painting etc. But try to find topics in which it can involve some further communication everyday. This will increase the talk in your relationship and will eventually increase the strength of the long distance relationship. 

4. Trust and Respect your partner :-

In a Long distance relationship, the most vital one is to increase trust within your partner and respect them actions. It is because they will have some new work schedule and commitments in there life. And, thus because of it they will not able to talk to you on a daily basics. So, in those cases try to develop the value of trust and respect to your partner. There will be some cases where they will not be available in calls with you and you need to communicate with them the very next day. Do not get angry for all those conditions and make them understand by having a gentle conversation. 

5.Be there for them in all conditions :- 

You should be clear that you cannot be there with the physically but you can still make them feel that you are there for them in all conditions. You can give them this feel by starting listening to all there calls carefully. It will help you to understand there mindset and the things that is going on there life. In many cases they will give some topics of discussion for the next day. And, if you feel that they are facing some issues try to sit with them and solve there issues. This will develop your relationship and increase the trust in your relationship. 

6.Meet them in Person or live :- 

The Final one which you should do in your relationship is to meet them on a weekly or monthly basis. If it is not possible to meet them in person then try to use technology to do face time and other applications to talk with them. This will not make your partner to fed up or bore in the relationship and will bring unnecessary thoughts like to end up the relationship. 

7. Work on your Career and help them :-

During your long distance relationship, you will get plenty of room for yourself where you can start working on your goals. And, also it is the time where you can also do certain things or stuffs that your partner hates. So, in this time interval you can focus on your life and also allow your partner to grow and develop there own career. 

Thus, the final conclusion about the Long distance relationship is that many people around the world will say that it will always end up the relationship. But in my aspect it is a different kind of feeling that many couples will never get. It will increase the level of trust and strength of your relationship and will also shows that how much you love each other. And, trust me you will have lots of fights and mis communication but try to hold on the relationship by letting you ego down. And, some day all these long distance will add extra meaning to your relationship. And, note that if you can live happily in there absent then you can definitely have a happy life together.